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Movies in flight and on the road really help keep peace between our children of all ages. Instead of bringing DVD players we just bring my husband's laptop and a 'splitter' so all the kids can plug in their headphones. If there is more than two listening at a time you'll need a batter powered splitter to boost the audio signal. Works like a charm...once they agree what movie they're going to watch.